Dating advice hard to get
So by playing hard to get, I lost a guy I was really into.I share that information in my last tip, so that maybe you won’t make the same mistake, you’ll communicate better and know when to walk away or try to make it work.
This became an issue for us both and instead of being the bigger person and communicating with him, I played games and hard to get, intentionally logging onto the site and leaving it open so he would see me on there. Well, as most of you have guessed, my games backfired and he told me he did not want to date a woman who was always online seeking other men.
We need to pay attention to timing, as timing is everything, but we also want to pay attention to behavior.
I have had a lot of friends (male and female) and clients talk to me about how they met someone online, hit it off, even and you need to learn the difference.
As a result, I have—unconsciously or unintentionally—taken him/it for granted. It happened to me recently and I can laugh about it now, but at the time I was freaked out, because he had been very consistent for the first month, then the curveball.
He knew what he was doing and I have to give him props for playing the game.
The ball bounced back to his court and I ran to get it. I need to hear a guy’s voice, get a vibe and have some sense of his personality before choosing to meet.