Dating a recently separated woman
Whenever Sharon meets someone new, she hopes that "this is the one," and Branden does, too.Sadly, when Sharon's relationships don't work out, not only is her heart broken, but so is her son's.If you start dating prematurely, you could be hurting — rather than honoring — those you date.When Becky was invited to lunch by a man she met at a bookstore, she was excited.She suggested that he develop relationships with other Christian men for support, rather than seek out women for emotional comfort. And, until he heals, he won't be able to relax and commit his entire heart to his new partner the way God intends.To begin healing, you'll want to seek counsel from committed Christians who are willing to walk through the grief process with you.
That way, when you feel tempted, you can call on them for prayer and support.Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.Not only does going slow give you time to heal, but it also helps you better assess those you date.